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Last week, Sean and I had our morning coffee on the balcony and watched as the Enterprise shuttle was pulled down the Hudson on a tug boat. It’s on its way to the Intrepid and I can’t wait to see it up close at the museum!

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Choices.

Marriage is a weird thing, right? The idea of choosing one person for the rest of your life. One person to eat with, sleep with, share income and space with, someone who will no doubt eat the last of the cereal and then put the empty box back in the cabinet, someone you’ll share closet space with and give up some of your favorite items because they’re too girlie for him–someone you’ll eventually create little half-you/half-him persons with. It’s a pretty colossal decision.

I don’t believe in soul mates, personally. The idea that out of 7-billion+ people on this Earth that there is one person and one person only without whom you wouldn’t be complete. I dunno, maybe it’s a little cynical, but it just sounds a bit like bull to me. There are lots of people I’ve connected with in my life. I’ve felt love, I’ve felt loss with more than one person.

Calling your partner your soul mate feels like a cop-out. This story that you wouldn’t have had to do anything and the fates would have still brought you two together. Relationships take effort. They’re not work necessarily, but it’s not always easy. In my mind, I think it’s more romantic–more meaningful to say to a person that out of all the relationships I’ve had or could have, yours is the one I want to be in forever. You are the person I choose out of all the men I’ve known, met and loved.

For those who haven’t heard yet: He proposed. I said yes.

Sean, I choose you.

Choices.

Choices.

Choices.

6 Responses to “Choices.”

  1. WordVixen Says:

    Squeeeeee! HUUUGE congratulations! :-)

    So… who you going to get for the photography? *lol*

  2. WordVixen Says:

    BTW- beautiful ring! I love Princess cuts, and it so looks like you!

  3. Colleen Says:

    Thank you!!! =0) OMG, I don’t even want to think about the task of choosing a photographer yet!

  4. WordVixen Says:

    *lol* I had to ask because I had these hilarious mental images of you racing around in your wedding dress, setting up the shot, running back, realizing that you posed wrong, running back… :-D

  5. Jeannie Says:

    It may not have been “fate,” but we’re happy the two of you found each other! Congrats! So happy for you and Sean. Jeannie

  6. sean Says:

    We’re proposed! I choose you Colleen.

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